文/ Whitney Joshua 、徐月月-幼儿园
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这些年来,育儿方式不断演变,我们这一代年轻父母采用的育儿方法与上一代大不相同。海归幼儿园在新学期伊始特别组织了“正面养育”工作坊,在家长与老师之间搭建桥梁,为大家分享育儿经验与见解提供了绝佳的平台。
海归幼儿园莫英花园长热情欢迎家长们,由此也拉开了本学年幼儿园系列家长工作坊的序幕。本次家长工作坊主讲者Ms.Whitney和徐月月老师带来引人入胜的破冰游戏,随后顺利过渡到本次工作坊的核心目标:培养面对挑战性行为的耐心和理解力。重点是认识到儿童仍在发展他们的情绪调节能力,在家长持续的指导下,孩子可以成长为更加自信、更擅长管理情绪的个体。
Ms.Whitney介绍了非常实用的三步法,用于在儿童发脾气或遭遇挑战的时刻与他们沟通:
1.保持冷静
2.设定界限
3.转移注意力及行为
这些沟通策略不仅有助于处理棘手问题,还有助于培养幼儿成长为能够有效调节自身情绪的人。
随后,各小组开始进行“头脑风暴”,运用三步法来练习应对各种情境。令人鼓舞的是,每个小组的家长们都很乐于分享自己的经历,讨论如何应对育儿挑战,并给予彼此支持和鼓励,由此增强了大家的育儿信心。这次工作坊不仅探讨了如何应对挑战性行为,还强调了识别和表扬积极行为的重要性。我们一起练习了可以融入日常生活、进一步激励儿童的积极话语。
徐老师还针对“如何引导较大年龄的孩子”以及“如何应对不同年龄段幼儿的动态变化”等问题与现场家长进行了探讨和分享。她提出,遇到难题时可以求助于身边的朋友、孩子的老师、同学家长,同时建议家庭所有成员参与到养育行动中。此外,徐老师还推荐了几本专注于正面养育的书籍,为家长的养育方式提供了更深入的参考建议。在本次工作坊的最后,大家还一起探讨了正面养育对培养健康和谐的家庭关系的重要性。
让我们共同期待海归幼儿园老师们的下一场家长工作坊!
Over the years, parenting styles have evolved, with today's generation adopting different approaches compared to previous ones. OCAC Early Years had the privilege of hosting a Positive Parenting Workshop, which provided an excellent platform for both parents and teachers to share their experiences and insights.
Over the years, parenting styles have evolved, with today's generation adopting different approaches compared to previous ones. OCAC Early Years had the privilege of hosting a Positive Parenting Workshop, which provided an excellent platform for both parents and teachers to share their experiences and insights.
Miss Whitney introduced a practical three-step approach for communicating with children during tantrums or challenging moments:
1. Remain Calm
2. Set Limits
3. Redirect Behavior
These communication strategies help manage difficult situations and contribute to nurturing children who will grow into adults capable of effectively regulating their emotions.
Participants then engaged in a group brainstorming activity, applying the three-step approach to navigate various scenarios. It was encouraging to witness each group share openly, discuss personal challenges, and support one another in building confidence in their parenting styles. The workshop addressed managing challenging behaviors and emphasized the importance of recognizing and praising positive behavior. Together, we practiced language and phrases that can be seamlessly incorporated into daily routines to motivate children further.
Miss Xu also discussed and shared how to guide older children and handle the dynamic changes of young children in different age groups. She suggests turning to friends, a child's teacher, a classmate's parent, or a friend when faced with difficulties and advises all family members to be involved in parenting. Additionally, Miss Xu recommended several books on Positive Parenting, providing deeper insights into this approach. The session concluded with a collective reflection on the importance of Positive Parenting in fostering healthy family relationships.
We look forward to the next Parent Workshops hosted by our knowledgeable OCAC Early Years teachers.
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